Bible verse about relationships

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Bible verse about relationships

Bible verse about relationships

The Blueprint for Connection: 65 Bible Verses About Relationships

 

Relationships are the heartbeat of the human experience. From the Garden of Eden to the early Church, the Bible is fundamentally a book about how we relate to God and to one another. Whether you are dating, married, navigating friendship, or dealing with conflict, Scripture offers the ultimate wisdom.

Here is a curated collection of the most powerful Bible verses concerning relationships.

I. Romantic Relationships & Marriage

 

Scriptures on covenant, commitment, and romantic love.

1. Genesis 2:18 – “The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'”

2. Genesis 2:24 – “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”

3. Ecclesiastes 4:9 – “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.”

4. Ecclesiastes 4:12 – “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

5. Song of Solomon 3:4 – “I have found the one whom my soul loves.”

6. Song of Solomon 8:6 – “Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave.”

7. Proverbs 18:22 – “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.”

8. Proverbs 31:10 – “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”

9. Mark 10:9 – “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

10. Ephesians 5:25 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

11. Ephesians 5:33 – “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”

12. Colossians 3:14 – “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

13. Colossians 3:19 – “Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.”

14. 1 Peter 3:7 – “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.”

15. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud… It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

16. 1 Corinthians 7:3 – “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.”

II. Friendship & Loyalty

 

Scriptures on choosing friends and being a faithful companion.

17. Proverbs 17:17 – “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

18. Proverbs 18:24 – “One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

19. Proverbs 27:9 – “Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice.”

20. Proverbs 27:17 – “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

21. Proverbs 13:20 – “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”

22. Proverbs 22:24-25 – “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.”

23. Job 6:14 – “Anyone who withholds kindness from a friend forsakes the fear of the Almighty.”

24. John 15:13 – “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

25. Ruth 1:16 – “Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.”

26. 1 Samuel 18:1 – “After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.”

27. 1 Corinthians 15:33 – “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.'”

28. 2 Corinthians 6:14 – “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?”

29. Amos 3:3 – “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”

30. Romans 12:10 – “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

III. Forgiveness, Conflict & Restoration

 

Verses on how to handle disagreements and restore broken bonds.

31. Ephesians 4:2 – “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”

32. Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

33. Ephesians 4:26 – “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”

34. Colossians 3:13 – “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

35. Proverbs 17:9 – “Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.”

36. Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

37. James 1:19 – “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

38. Matthew 18:15 – “If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.”

39. 1 Peter 4:8 – “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”

40. Romans 12:18 – “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

41. Luke 6:31 – “Do to others as you would have them do to you.”

42. Proverbs 27:6 – “Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.”

43. Matthew 5:23-24 – “First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

44. James 5:16 – “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.”

IV. General Christian Conduct in Relationships

 

How to treat others in the family of God and the world.

45. Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

46. Philippians 2:4 – “not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

47. Galatians 6:2 – “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

48. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 – “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”

49. John 13:34 – “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

50. Romans 12:9 – “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.”

51. Romans 13:8 – “Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another.”

52. Romans 15:1 – “We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves.”

53. Romans 15:7 – “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.”

54. Hebrews 10:24-25 – “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together…”

55. 1 John 3:18 – “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”

56. 1 John 4:7 – “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God.”

57. 1 John 4:12 – “No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”

58. 1 Corinthians 16:14 – “Do everything in love.”

59. Luke 6:35 – “But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back.”

60. Proverbs 12:26 – “The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”

61. Proverbs 3:3 – “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.”

62. 1 Timothy 5:8 – “Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”

25 Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) About Relationships in the Bible

 

Q1: Does the Bible say “The one” exists for everyone? A: The Bible does not explicitly teach that there is only one “soul mate” for every person. It emphasizes choosing a partner based on wisdom, character, and shared faith (2 Corinthians 6:14) rather than destiny.

Q2: Is dating in the Bible? A: No. “Dating” is a modern concept. The Bible speaks of betrothal and marriage. However, biblical principles of purity, honor, and wisdom apply to modern dating.

Q3: What does it mean to be “unequally yoked”? A: Based on 2 Corinthians 6:14, it refers to a close partnership (marriage or business) between a believer and a non-believer. Just as two oxen of different strengths cannot plow a straight line, spiritual mismatch causes friction and divergent paths.

Q4: What does the Bible say about sex before marriage? A: Scripture consistently reserves sexual intimacy for the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). It is viewed as a “one flesh” bond (Genesis 2:24).

Q5: Is divorce allowed in the Bible? A: God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but Jesus and Paul permitted it in specific cases of sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9) or abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:15). The goal is always reconciliation if possible.

Q6: How should a Christian handle a toxic relationship? A: The Bible commands us to seek peace (Romans 12:18) but also to guard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) and avoid bad company (1 Corinthians 15:33). If a relationship is abusive or leads to sin, separation may be necessary.

Q7: What is the husband’s role in marriage? A: Ephesians 5:25 commands husbands to love their wives sacrificially, “as Christ loved the church.” This is servant leadership, not tyranny.

Q8: What is the wife’s role in marriage? A: Ephesians 5:22 and 33 encourage wives to submit to and respect their husbands. This is not inferiority, but a voluntary yielding within a loving partnership, mirroring the Church’s relation to Christ.

Q9: How do I know if a relationship is from God? A: A godly relationship will bring you closer to Christ, not further away. It will be characterized by peace (Colossians 3:15), the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22), and confirmation from wise counsel (Proverbs 11:14).

Q10: What does the Bible say about friendship? A: Friendship is highly valued. Jesus called his disciples “friends” (John 15:15). Proverbs teaches that a true friend loves at all times and is willing to offer constructive correction (Proverbs 27:6, 17).

Q11: Can Christians be friends with non-Christians? A: Yes. Jesus was a “friend of sinners” (Luke 7:34). However, our closest advisors (“yoke” partners) should share our faith values, while we love and witness to everyone.

Q12: How do I deal with loneliness? A: Psalm 68:6 says, “God sets the lonely in families.” We are encouraged to seek community in the Church and remember God’s constant presence (Hebrews 13:5).

Q13: What if my family does not approve of my relationship? A: The Bible commands us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:2). While adult children make their own decisions, the wisdom of parents should be weighed carefully. If the objection is based on biblical grounds, heed it.

Q14: How do I forgive a partner who cheated? A: Forgiveness is a command (Colossians 3:13), but reconciliation is a process that requires trust to be rebuilt. You can forgive the debt without immediately restoring the relationship if there is no repentance.

Q15: Is it okay to be single? A: Absolutely. Paul calls singleness a “gift” in 1 Corinthians 7, noting that single people can be more devoted to the Lord’s work without distraction.

Q16: What is “agape” love? A: Agape is unconditional, selfless, sacrificial love. It is the love God has for us and the love we are commanded to have for others (1 Corinthians 13).

Q17: How should Christians handle conflict? A: Quickly (Ephesians 4:26), privately at first (Matthew 18:15), and with a goal of restoration, listening more than speaking (James 1:19).

Q18: What does “Iron sharpens iron” mean? A: From Proverbs 27:17, it means that in a strong relationship, two people challenge and refine each other, making each other better, even if the process creates some “sparks.”

Q19: Does the Bible talk about boundaries? A: Yes. Galatians 6:5 says “each one should carry their own load.” Proverbs 25:17 warns against overstaying your welcome. Boundaries are necessary for healthy relationships.

Q20: What does it mean to “guard your heart”? A: Proverbs 4:23 warns us to protect our inner life because everything flows from it. In relationships, this means being careful about who we trust and not giving our affections prematurely.

Q21: Can I remarry after divorce? A: Views vary among denominations. Generally, if the divorce was on biblical grounds (adultery/abandonment) or if the former spouse has died (Romans 7:2), remarriage is permitted in the Lord.

Q22: How do I pray for my future spouse? A: Pray for their spiritual growth, purity, and character. Pray for your own preparation to be a godly partner (Proverbs 31, Psalm 37:4).

Q23: What is the definition of love in the Bible? A: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 is the standard: Patience, kindness, lack of envy, humility, selflessness, and endurance.

Q24: Why does God say “Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character”? A: (1 Corinthians 15:33) Because humans are influential. We tend to become like the people we spend the most time with.

Q25: What is the “cord of three strands”? A: From Ecclesiastes 4:12, it symbolizes a relationship (usually marriage) that includes the husband, the wife, and God. When God is woven into the relationship, it is not easily broken.